Why sex diminishes after marriage

Why sex diminishes after marriage.

Men here want to know and women here complain of it often.

It has been asked repeatedly over the years and all too often by men in my mobile home park, "why don't men get sex very often after marriage?"  I can't count the number of men I hear complaining about this.  They simply ask the question, but how many of them actually try to figure it out and fix the problem?
As a woman who talks to a LOT of other women and overhears a LOT of conversations at the coffee shop, I can tell you why MOST women no longer want sex after marriage and why oral sex is virtually obsolete.

When a man starts dating a woman, he takes her out, buys her flowers from time to time, dances with her when their song plays on the radio, holds her hand, watches movies that she likes to, tries to look attractive for her, etc.

After marriage, things begin to change.  The man stops taking his lady out unless she is on the verge of a melt down, buys her flowers only on special occasions or when he's done something wrong, rarely dances with her, only watches what he likes on television(does not share the remote), scratches and re-adjusts himself entirely too often, has an abundant supply of gas and isn't afraid to use it, throws on a hat instead of brushing his hair, shaves perhaps once every week or two if that, gets a pot belly, sits for countless hours in front of the television obsessing about sports or video games, and foreplay becomes a thing of the past.  A man's idea of foreplay at this point is to say, "let's get our freak on," or something to that effect, and the woman enjoying sex is no longer important to the man.  Typically, the woman isn't even given the opportunity to get turned on, so she's going into sex like a man with a limp penis only difference; it's isn't a visible thing, so of no consequence to the man.  The guy simply uses this opportunity to try out a few new lubes from the store because this is far easier than actually spending time turning his wife on.   I have heard plenty of women talk about how they feel as if they are stuck in a porn flick or that they feel like a blow-up-doll with absolutely NO love in the bedroom at all.  As for oral sex, well, let's just say that if a woman isn't going to enjoy sex AT ALL, then why in the world would she do one more thing that YOU enjoy, but she doesn't?

So, here is the skinny on this subject and I pose this question to all of you men;

If your lady didn't care to have anything to do with you outside of the bedroom (let's say that you actually love her and want to spend time with her), she looks like Hell most of the time, not caring if you are attracted to her at all, farts all the time and scratches herself while sitting in front of the television, Never gives you the opportunity to get aroused prior to sex, and you never get more than half way there before the sex is over, would you want to waste your time jumping in the sack just to go to bed sexually frustrated and completely unsatisfied?
But, don't take my word for it, ask other women or simply listen to what they have to say over a cup of coffee.  You'd be surprised.




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